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You Win or You Learn


If we shall be quiet
And ready enough,
We will find compensation
In every disappointment.
Henry David Thoreau

You win, or you learn.

When you adjust your thinking that a loss is not a loss, but rather it is a learn, then both the win and the loss will prove to be beneficial to your success.

When you incorporate “You win, or you learn,” you will always win because in both cases you come out ahead.

Tom Brands said,

“When things don’t go the way that you want them to go, get the next best thing.”

When your goal is to win, and you don’t, the next best thing is to learn why.

Expect, then inspect, then apply.


You Win or You Learn

Is a chapter from

Wrestling Rules for Life

Which can be purchased at

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